Saturday, December 3, 2011

How to Mend a Broken Heart?

A friend asked, how do you mend a broken heart? Not an easy question to answer but there are many ways to ease the pain and eventually start over again. 

How can you mend this broken man?
How can a loser ever win?
Please help me mend
My broken heart and let me live again 
(Michael Buble - how to mend a broken heart lyrics)
Heartbreak is a type of emotional pain that really, really hurts. In fact you will feel rotten for a long time and even cry non stop. Let it all out…it’s ok…grieve your loss, but remember not to do it too long or you will just end up getting even more damaged not only emotionally, but also physically and mentally. You should understand that there is really not a single perfect relationship in the world. Even those couples you admire have their ups and downs; they just know how to deal with them. So, you should accept the fact that you were both responsible for the way things turned out in your relationship, even though it may appear as if it was your ex who was in the wrong. You should therefore agree to start your relationship afresh without focusing on the past mistakes. 

The happy fact is that most people not only get over heartbreak, but they go on to love again. No one is immune from a broken heart. At some time in our lives someone hurts us, or we hurt them, and we feel like curling into a corner in a heap of tears. We have all been there. The good news is the heart does heal. And we can find the courage to love again.

Sometimes the words of others soothe us more than our ownHere are some Quotes to Inspire and God Willing, Help You Through the Day:

"Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go." –Author Unknown

"Sadness flies away on the wings of time." -Jean de La Fontaine

"I thought when love for you died, I should die. It's dead. Alone, most strangely, I live on." -Rupert Brooke

"Sadness flies on the wings of the morning and out of the heart of darkness comes the light. " -Jean Giraudoux

"When love is lost, do not bow your head in sadness; instead keep your head up high and gaze into heaven for that is where your broken heart has been sent to heal." -Author Unknown

"A final comfort that is small, but not cold: The heart is the only broken instrument that works. -T.E. Kalem

"Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together." -Author Unknown

"Don't worry about losing. If it is right, it happens - The Main thing is not to hurry. Nothing good gets away." -John Steinbeck

"It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all."-Samuel Butler

"Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go.” - Herman Hesse

Love Lost: “Where you used to be, there is a hole in the world, which I find myself constantly walking around in the daytime, and falling in at night.” -Edna St. Vincent Millay

Dreams: “Keep your dreams alive and understand to achieve anything requires faith and belief in yourself, vision, hard work, determination, and dedication. Remember all things are possible for those who believe.” -Gale Devers

Hope: “Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all.” -Dale Carnegie

Hope: “Hope is that thing with feathers that perches in the soul and sings the tune without the words and never stops… at all.”  -Emily Dickinson
Lost Love: “Wanting him is hard to forget, loving him is hard to regret, losing him is hard to accept, but even with all the hurt I’ve felt, letting go is the most painful yet.” -Unknown
Love: “Love is as much of an object as an obsession, everybody wants it, everybody seeks it, but few ever achieve it, those who do will cherish it, be lost in it, and among all, never… never forget it.” -Curtis Judalet
Lost Love: “Love never dies a natural death….Love dies because we don’t know how to replenish its source. Love dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. Love dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishing.” -A. Nin
Forgiveness: Forgiveness is the economy of the heart. Forgiveness saves the expense of anger, the cost of hatred, the waste of spirits. -Hannah More
Existence: “Everyday is a new opportunity to stand up and try again.” -Amelie Chance
State of Mind: “Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment.” -Buddha
Have Purpose: “Nothing contributes so much to tranquilize the mind as a steady purpose – a point on which the soul may fix its intellectual eye.”  -Mary Wollstonecraft Shelley
 Reference your favorite quote to ease your heartache. You’ll find some of them are hopeful and give you at least some strength to move on.

Further Reading : How Move On after a Break Up


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